The typical rules of estate planning
may fly right out the window when you remarry, have children from a previous
marriage and are helping raise children from your new spouse’s previous marriage.
The proper balance between caring for a second family and providing for your
own children will differ in each case, depending on the circumstances. You can
make these difficult decisions more easily if you understand some of the available
alternatives, which you probably did not consider in prior planning.
The Typical Plan
The typical estate plan involves
deferring the payment of any estate taxes until the death of the surviving spouse.
You accomplish this by leaving assets equal to the applicable estate tax exclusion
amount to a separate trust for the benefit of your spouse and children and leaving
the balance of assets to your surviving spouse.
In a typical plan, the surviving
spouse has significant access to the family trust, including distributions of
principal and income pursuant to a defined standard. The surviving spouse may
even be the trustee with discretion to make distributions and may have the right
to withdraw the greater of 5% of the trust principal or $5,000 each year (a
5-and-5 power). Surviving spouses may also have a limited power to appoint assets
to persons other than themselves.
The balance of the assets left
to the surviving spouse is often placed in a marital trust providing that all
income is paid to the spouse for life. The spouse’s access to principal in a
marital trust may range from very broad to no access at all. The surviving spouse
may also be given a limited power to appoint assets of the marital trust to
others with default to your children if the power is not exercised.
The Expanded Family Plan
When planning for an expanded family,
you may need to make several changes to the typical estate plan:
- You may want to consider having an independent trustee (as sole
trustee or as a co-trustee) for the family trust and the marital trust to minimize
conflict between your children from your prior marriage and your second family.
- If your intent is to primarily benefit your second spouse, then
the trust should indicate that distributions are to be made to your surviving
spouse without regard to the remainder beneficiaries. In the context of a second
marriage, the typical family trust may make adequate provision for your spouse
but conflict may result if he or she appears to have too much control.
- If you intend that the trustee should make no distributions of principal
to your spouse because his or her other resources are adequate, then the trust
should highlight that direction and make clear what is adequate.
- You should evaluate whether a 5-and-5 power in the family trust
should be given to your spouse. He or she could use such a power to remove much
of the growth from the family trust and provide for his or her own children.
You will need to decide if you intend for the family trust to possibly be used
in this manner.
- Providing your spouse with a limited power of appointment may be
inappropriate in the family trust and the marital trust. Such powers can allow
him or her to effectively rewrite your estate plan.
The “Disinheritance” Problem
If you decide to defer the payment
of any estate taxes until the death of the surviving spouse, and your spouse
is much younger than you, your children may be more likely to not survive your
spouse and could wind up effectively being disinherited. Even if your children
do outlive your spouse, they may be well into retirement by that time. Your
children may not understand why their inheritance will be delayed until your
spouse’s death.
One solution is to simply leave
a portion of the estate to your spouse outright and to leave the remainder of
the estate to your children upon your death. Another is to acquire life insurance
through an irrevocable trust to provide for your children, leaving your entire
estate to your spouse on your death. The advantage to your spouse is the complete
control available over the assets received without tax depletion. The advantage
to your children is that they receive their inheritance sooner rather than later
(also tax-free), avoiding future conflicts with your spouse.
Being Logical -- and Fair
Estate planning for a second family
can be challenging. While you will want to be financially astute with your plans,
being fair and logical is also important. If you would like us to help you sort
through the available options, please let us know.